A ProviderMost men believe that being a good provider means supporting a family financially. It means much more than that. A man should also contribute to the emotional, spiritual, physical and mental well-being of his family. In order to do this, he must recognize that there are other currencies, in addition to money, that need to be provided.
A Protector
This means more than beating up the guy next door if he insults your wife. It means protecting her self-esteem and self-worth as well as your children's. It can also mean protecting your way of life and guarding against any threats to the things that you and your family value.
A Leader
Instead of waiting for your wife to take the initiative when you are having problems, take the lead. Get in the game and create what you want in your family instead of whining about your family situation. Marriage is not a 50/50 partnership. It's a 100/100 partnership. That means you give 100 percent. And remember, you get what you give.
A Teacher
What are you teaching those around you — especially your children — with your behavior? It's important to provide a good example for your children, loved ones and community with both words and deeds. Set high standards and teach by doing.
HERE ARE SIMPLE 19 STEPS TO MAKE YOUR WIFE HAPPY
1. Begin by leaving love notes occasionally when you go to work on places where she can find it later in the day.
2. Give her the responsibility to make a list of repairs or improvements. Endeavor to do them one by one . you will be surprised how she will appreciate the new changes in the home.
3. Rush in hug her and give her a big kiss when she is alone in the other room sewing, reading or working. It will make her happy and believe in you.
4. Throw away the rubbish the unwanted or the unimportant things in the home without her notice.
5. Let her know that her phone calls her always welcomed while you are the office. Endeavor never to turn down a call from her even during meetings.
6. Listen to her when she talks to you, look into her eyes not at her food or the TV set. Respond positively whenever you can. Show her you her interested in what she has to say.
7. Phone her from the office or work just ti tell her how much you love her. Strictly no business talks allowed. Give her the special unexpected moment of your time to show her your love.
8. Tell her you are my best friend
9. Keep on making dates with her throughout the marriage. Ask for a date for friday night and tell her the appropriate time both of you will meet.
10. Help her with domestic works at times you are free.Women enjoy when their husbands do that to assist them.
11. Write her some poetry expressing your feelings.when a woman receives an original poem from lover, it thrills her more.
12. Surprise her with breakfast in bed and not just on her birthdays or Mother's Day. If she asks "whats the occasion?" just smile and say "no particular reason, I just love you"
13. Be careful about our male habit or joking about the intelligence of women.
14. Give her a frequent break from the house and children getting away is good for her, you can consider evenings
15. Don't run down her parents or family
16. Keep your own calendar of the special days of your relationships and plan special surprise of celebrations.
17. Respect her friends and show an interest in getting to know them.
18. After she's spent a hard day at the kitchen, you could help her out by serving her. many mothers are used to eating their food cold because they try to serve others.
19. When the two of you are at a party or gathering, catch her eye with a wink and a smile, flirting with her in public assures her that , of all the women in that room, she is the most important to you
No comments:
Post a Comment