THE JOURNEY OF A KISS

A kiss is a show of affection. Kissing ranges from a gentle touch of a cheek to another cheek, or from a lip to a cheek, to a nose or to another lip. Kissing may go beyond this to a lip to lip caressing until tongue to tongue contacts, saliva exchange, and is often backed up with deep caressing of hand movements to other parts of the body. So the first question, we need to tackle is which kissing are we referring to, and what's the purpose of each type of kissing, and more importantly, where does it lead to?

A young man once told me, "I've kissed my girl friend on her cheek like thrice...and those times it was to show my affection...but now we're talking about the lip to lip, and the reason for that will also be to show my affection for her without leading to sex or touching other parts of the body.....just lip to lip kiss."

I like the phrase, "...JUST LIP TO LIP KISS.." It sounds so innocent and inviting. It shows no harm and certainly, no death. It wraps itself in a bliss of curiosity and a longing to explore ancient wonders. But I knew its lurking danger, hidden within its basement of desire and so I asked him, "Young man, you've kissed her on her cheek, not once, but thrice. So what affection have you shown from the lip to cheek that you feel should be INCREASED to lip to lip? Why aren't you content with lip to cheek?"
No clear answer returned.
But we both knew the answer. 

He wanted more. The cheeks were no longer as tantalizing as the first time. The cheeks weren't producing the sensation that thrilled his curiosity. He wanted more. He needed more. It was only human to desire an UPGRADE. Shouldn't this kiss be allowed to continue its journey?


Sex is a process..... You have to ask yourself also why is premarital sex ungodly, and what constitutes the sex process?
When the kiss journey visits the lips, and desires more, what shall we say? When it takes a downward slide and lands on the oval breasts, what shall we say?
What shall we do with the erecting penis? What shall we say to the sensations from the vagina? Will they be deprived of this journey? Or are we going to say that its only the penis into the vagina that is ungodly?

When the lips is on this journey, what shall the hands be doing? Do we cage them and remind the hands not to interfere?
What if the stubborn hands goes all over her shoulders and lands on the breasts, are we going to still call it "just a kiss"?
What if the stubborn and now, uncontrolled hands moves on, and invades the buttocks and the thighs, are we going to still call it just a kiss?
With you mind shut down, and your system mesmerised with oceans of love, the question you should be asking is, HOW FAR IS JUST A KISS... and WHY SHOULD IT EVEN BE FAR?